Normally I try to eat healthy. My husband is a personal trainer / bodybuilder and I try to be as healthy as possible. Well, when I’m not expecting. When I am, I eat small quantities of whatever I want.
Today I want ramen noodle with peanut butter. I cook it in chicken broth and I add veggies and 2 TBS of peanut butter. This groses put my husband amd my parents.
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve eaten while pregnant?
3 years ago our healthcare was better. Even my pediatrician says so. If you don’t agree with me, I really don’t need to hear it today. I am in the middle of trying to get my 1st born immunized without going broke, & find a new OB because the wonderful triathalon running OB from last time switched hospitals. Truth be told I liked the hospital & their nurses better than the OB and you know what, to me thats important because you spend more time with the nurses than with the doctor. So here I am calling all over town.
You know I remember 5 years ago I worked at an urban community health center in their reproductive health building. I did medical billing & then I was the personal assistant of the department director. We cared for our clients. They were lower income clients but they got the best we had. Honestly, I wished I still lived there because I would take my daughter there. Because Pennsylvania is better than Florida healthcare-wise in my experience.
All this to say, we’ve been lied to about afordable healthcare. My husband makes too much for us to get basic healthcare and we make too little to get exceptional healthcare. So we are stuck with shitty middle-of-the-road healthcare that means there are a lot of out-of-pocket expenses. I don’t even care that this seems political. Its not about political parties for me. Its about taking care of my child. Its about trying to keep household expenses down so that every three months we can shell out hundreds of dollars for basic universal precautions.
Praise God we are not in debt, praise God for my husband’s 2 jobs and my freelance work. Because if not for God I’d be more discouraged than I am today.
I took this picture two days ago when i drove from my teeny house to Islamorada and the tide was coming in. I felt small and insignificant, but safe. Now? I still feel small and insignificant and I’m trying to focus on making my daughter feel safe.
So we had L’s birthday party & there was a cornucopia of good foods. I neglected to take a picture of the arroz con pollo, however I had 2 relatives say they tip their hat to me. My husband’s grandfather & aunt said the carrot cake was the best they ever had, and my husband borrowed my appetizers for a post on his fitness app.
The main table
The dessert table
Tea sanwhiches for the toddlers present
Ccucumber cream cheese & tomato appetizers
L and her bffs
L and her cousin
L & her smash cake
All in all it was very successful. I’m not the best at frosting cakes, but I think the flavor made up for it!
Sometimes when nursing, my daughter will fall asleep with the best satisfied look on her face. It makes me happy. How much more happy is God when he sees us enjoying the good things He has given us?
“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.”
James 1:17 ESV
“Like newborn infants, long for the pure spiritual milk, that by it you may grow up into salvation—” (even if it’s 3:30am, if you hunger for God, He will feed you spirituality). 1 Peter 2:2
No matter what side of the aisle you’re on, if you’re a mother, there is one thing you know to be true:
Babies’ Naps Matter.
It’s serious! If they’re under 1 yr, they desparately need those 2 daily naps! If they’re under 5 they need that afternoon nap. And Mama, I know YOU need that quiet time in your house too!
Personally I hate seeing the videos where mothers are hiding out in their pantrys, closets or bathrooms, while their kids run wild all through the house. *no judgement* but it was my house first, you have a room in it…What work’s for me is being super intentional about making sure my peanut has both naps in.
While she naps I can get things done. Or not, you know? I talk to my people (do we say tribe? Squad? What’s the right terminology nowadays?) Or do the laundry, or catch up on my shows, shower, or do some reading. It’s a nice reset for both of us. And my house looks clean, I get clean, and I’m the jolly person we all know and love.
Now to be perfectly honest, there are days where she sings or blows bubbles or plays with her giraffe instead of naps, especially the shorter nap. But you know what? It is my opinion she needs that time too. It’s where her personhood and imagination are given opportunity to grow. Also my pediatrician says it’s cool, so I’m down.
It’s a joy to sit in my livingroom sipping tea & eating scones, and listen to her making music for 45 minutes. At the end of nap time, after a quick diaper change we are reunited and off on mama-hija adventures once more.